Oral sex is the main course in your sex life
Oral sex is the joker dish in different sex dishes; it may be the main dish after which you do not need other dishes, or it may be the appetizer dish that you eat as an appetizer before the main course.
This means that oral sex may be part of the sensual foreplay prior to vaginal or anal sex or it may be the entire sexual activity between partners.
What is oral sex?
Oral sex is the stimulation of the clitoris and the external part of the female genitalia in the female by the tongue and lips and is called cunnilingus in English. There is stimulation of the penis (and fondling of the testicles) in the male by the tongue and mouth from the inside, which is called fellatio or blowjob.
Are these the only oral sex practices?
There is a third practice of oral sex, which is fondling the anus with the tongue and lips. This practice fondles the nerve endings in the anal area, which arouses the partner. It is preferable to practice this type with a lot of protection after deep personal hygiene when starting this practice.
But how do we practice oral sex?
First, we do not start from the bottom, oral sex needs foreplay before it, and this means kissing, gentle touches and fondling the nipples, then moving to the genitals. As is the case with kissing, we start with the lips (for the sake of kissing) and then use the tongue.
Oral sex with your partner
If your partner is female, after the first foreplay of kissing, touching, etc., you should gently and calmly move down to her genitals.
You can kiss her breasts and belly, and when you reach the genitals, you can start kissing her and then use your tongue to lick her clitoris, which is her most important arousal area.
While you are doing this, you can gently suck the clitoris because this increases arousal. Think of the organ as ice cream, you can lick the outer and inner lips, you should lick the clitoris and imagine that a piece of ice cream has started to melt and you should suck it so that you do not miss the opportunity to eat all the ice cream.
Always ask her if she is comfortable and prefers what she is doing or prefers to do it differently. Communication is always the key to sexual happiness.
Information of interest to you before oral sex with a woman
1. Each organ is different from the other. That's why the smell, feel, taste, shape, and size of her penis and clitoris are different from any other partner you've had oral sex with before.
2. Look for the clitoris. The inner lips meet at a point. If you spread them apart with your finger, you'll see a small bump called the clitoris. This is what you want to stimulate.
3. If your partner has been circumcised, you won't find a clitoris, but you can continue to stimulate this area with your tongue with your partner's permission and consent.
4. Take it easy... start kissing and stimulating the clitoris slowly until your partner's arousal builds.
5. Touching with oral sex increases pleasure.
6. Always communicate.
7. Only insert your fingers if your partner allows you to.
8. When your partner is about to orgasm, continue doing exactly what you're doing. Do not increase or decrease the speed, change the direction of your hand, or change the area you are caressing with your tongue.
Oral sex with a partner
If your partner is male, after the first foreplay, touch or kiss your partner's chest and stomach (if he prefers this), touch and kiss his penis, then start licking it from the bottom, starting from the line of the testicles to the head, then suck the head and start moving it with your head.
Think of it as if there is a peeled banana and you are very hungry. You can eat it all the way to the throat. But be careful not to bite during oral sex because this may be annoying to your partner.
The first few times of oral sex, you may find yourself blowing or using the penis as a hookah, which is not what is required, but it may be a source of nice shared laughter. Instead, you are required to suck as if your finger has a lot of sweet cake mixture on it and you want to suck it.
As we mentioned before, always ask your partner if he is comfortable and prefers what you are doing. But don't forget that there is an automatic reaction that may occur and is scientifically called the gag reflex. This causes the tongue to rise and almost expel the penis from the mouth involuntarily. This is very normal and disappears over time with increased oral sex.
Information that interests you before oral sex with a man
1. Use your lips as a guard for your teeth.
2. Use your hand or hands. With the repeated head movement, you may get dizzy or have a headache, and if you are having oral sex for the first time, you may not be completely comfortable with full oral sex. That is why you can use your hand with your mouth in this experience.
3. Plan for ejaculation: It is preferable to agree on the place of ejaculation, and whether the partner wants it in the mouth or not before starting. This way, the partner can withdraw the penis at the time of ejaculation if the partner does not prefer this.
4. Make eye contact: Many men prefer eye contact during oral sex. Ask your partner if he prefers this.
5. Touching with oral sex increases pleasure.